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In his book, Weiss asks what happens when a Type B masturbator grows up and becomes a pastor, Christian counselor, or Bible teacher.If he universalizes his own experience, this man is likely to think there is nothing wrong with masturbation at all.Men who have never masturbated (Type A) – Weiss believes this group of men is the smallest camp of men in the Western world.After years of speaking at men’s conferences, he’s only met 14 men who claim to have fantasize or lust during masturbation (Type B) – This type of person stays “connected” to himself during masturbation—they don’t escape into fantasy.At first glance, the question “Can you masturbate without lusting? For those who feel no guilt or shame about the matter, the question sounds ridiculous.For those who are utterly opposed to all masturbation, regardless of the internal dynamics that drive it, the question sounds irrelevant.“You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Weiss says, in his 20 years of professional experience counseling men around issues of sexual sin, Type C masturbators rarely ever become Type B masturbators.He welcomes men to attempt the change, but warns, “Be careful not to deceive yourself.” Weiss also reminds married men that when they took a vow of marriage, their sexuality became intimately tied to another person.
Therefore, "God gave them up" (they became reprobate).
For this person, the act is merely performing a bodily function.
As such, there is little emotion attached to the experience, and typically no sense of guilt or shame. Men who lust during masturbation (Type C) – These men are “disconnected” during the act of masturbation: their focus is on a mental image, an actual image, or an object.
He reminds men of the solemn command of 1 Corinthians 7:4, “The husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.” Regardless of your motive for masturbation, your wife has authority over your sexuality.
“God is the first, your wife is the second and you are the third owner of your penis,” writes Weiss.
But for those whom lust is their primary concern when it comes to masturbation, the question is of immense importance.