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But here he is, with a knowledgeable partner eager to get him over the hump, and he keeps balking.
You have just been deeply hurt by the man you thought you would spend your life with, and I understand there is not an abundance of lovely, eligible men.
But having a partner you’re certain will never cheat on you because he’s apparently incapable of doing the deed is not the answer.
You also must know that even if you do get him in bed, it’s likely to be a frustrating experience.
What your wife does is bad for retailers’ bottom line, but it’s better for yours that she’s a compulsive returner and not just a compulsive shopper. This recent story on how sporting goods retailer REI had to limit its return policy from forever to one year, because too many customers were returning worn items bought decades ago.
I agree your wife is being somewhat dishonest—although let’s give her credit for wearing the stuff only once—and that she should build a real instead of virtual wardrobe, one she can afford. I bet the whole process of selecting items beyond her budget, showing up dressed to kill, then getting her money back gives her a kind of high.
About two weeks before our wedding I went shopping with her and her sister and they confessed and told me that they wear most of the items once and return them.
I was a bit floored as I come from a very honest hard-working family, and we would never stoop so low.
If you two still can’t get into bed, that’s evidence enough your relationship won’t survive outside it.This has become the underlying issue in most of our arguments.Dear Keep It, Your wife has unlocked the secret of how to be a woman who never wears the same thing twice—and never pays for it, either.My friends say I need a man with more heat and passion but I am hesitant to pass up an otherwise great guy.Dear Virgin, “I don’t have a condom” is “The dog ate my homework” of the lifetime virgin. Since he’s never had it, despite your giving him the opportunity, you may be onto something.
He always tells me that we can't do anything because he doesn't have condoms, but he hasn't made any attempts to purchase some.