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George finally had the courage to ask Maria for a date to the local pizzeria.
She reported to her girlfriends, that although he seemed interested in her, he was very hesitant.
Another way is to start a light, brief chat with a woman you see often, such as a supermarket cashier, a bank employee, a nurse, a neighbor, a co-worker, or any other location that you go to sort of regularly.
George did that with the woman in the supermarket, Maria.
It’s important to be aware of her experience and show compassion for her as she does for you.
One area that presents a potential difficulty is that the woman may not understand some of your reactions, because she doesn’t know what you lived through.
It was early evening, the street was quiet, but George’s mind wasn’t.
Other guys had the same difficulties and had tried different ways to overcome it.
One way was to connect with male friends, and frankly say something like, “I want to meet someone, but not sure how.” Almost any guy knows some women, and many would be happy to make an introduction.
He clearly remembered how much fun it used to be, but right now, it was of remarkably little interest. Yet, the loneliness of being by himself, for months now, bothered him.
From time to time his mother threw him a sideways glance, as if to say, “So, are you seeing anyone? His father once slapped him on the back, “George, so what’s with the girls.
After much hesitation he called his contact at the VA and asked to be referred to a support group.